Showing posts with label Emory. Show all posts
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Wednesday, October 2, 2013

Meet the Boss


          “I like to create environments; I find great joy in creating environments where things can grow. We try to create an environment of peace so when someone comes in here, just full of unanswered questions, not knowing the future…they might find peace here at the Hope Lodge…if everything is in a state of excellence, people can relax.”
Danny Sheltz, Director Hope Lodge
            These are the words of the director of the Hope Lodge, Mr. Danny Sheltz.  He’s been in the director’s position at the lodge for about two and one half years now and feels as though he has found his calling in this world.  How he came to be here is an interesting story which I will briefly share with you.

            In 2010, his wife, Tammy,  went in for an annual physical.  At the end of the session, the doctor asked if there was anything else she needed to be aware of.  She responded, “well, yes, I have this tingling sensation here on my left side; but it’s no big deal….”  As the doctor examined her a strange quiet came over the room and the doctor immediately ordered a CT scan.  Called in the next day, she was informed that she had cancer!  Time stood still. 

            There was a softball sized tumor growing off the kidney and the fear was that it would attach to other organs. At this time, the Sheltz’ did not know the American Cancer Society (ACS) existed.  While visiting his local coffee shop, Danny engaged in conversation with the owner and he said, “Hey, my wife works for the ACS and I’d like to give you some numbers to call.  The support and information the Sheltz received from the ACS was phenomenal. 

            During the process of her becoming cancer free, Danny kiddingly said, “Hey Honey, when you get better, I’m going to quit my job at the church and get a job with the American Cancer Society.” 

            They still had to go through the anguish of waiting for surgery dates and treatments. Many were the nights his wife cried herself to sleep.  They felt very secure with their doctor who subsequently performed a five hour surgery.  He came out and said, “I got everything and was able to leave half the kidney.  The anxiety and anguish disappeared in a second. 

            Danny tried to return to the work he’d known for 22 years with youth and his heart was not in it any longer.  He gave the church four –months’ notice and quit his job with nothing lined up; until the same coffee shop friend told Danny that the director’s job at the Hope Lodge was available and maybe he should think about applying.  His skill set seemed ideal and the rest is history and he’s now been the director at the Hope Lodge since May 2011.



The American Cancer Society and the Hope Lodge seek these three goals:

Provide no-cost lodging to help alleviate the strain of travel and long-term treatment.

            Estimated savings of $2, 293,200.00 to guest in 2012.

Provide a strong support network and access to cancer information, resources and programs designed to enhance the quality of life of cancer patients and caregivers.

            99% of guests said that Hope Lodge provided a supportive, homelike environment.

Offer meaningful ways to stay involved with the Hope Lodge for the community, area survivors and former Hope Lodge guests.

            280-300 former guests returned to celebrate life at the 14th Reunion of the Hope Lodge in Atlanta.



            This place works.  It is truly a blessing to stay here and to draw upon the commonality of experience from the other residents.  Their stories are similar yet different. When you say, I’m having a really bad day, they understand.  And they’re more than willing to listen.

            If you’re looking for a worthwhile cause, I unequivocally recommend the American Cancer Society and particularly, the Hope Lodge.

            Muggy and I walked back to the Candler Mansion this afternoon and then found a pretty waterfall. 


Nice crib huh?
           And, it was graduation night again this evening.  The longer we are here, the more difficult it becomes to say good-bye to our friends.  But, they are anxious to return to their families, friends and lives.  We will miss them.  And, the pot luck dinner was amazing!! 
the Grads tonight, Alex, Janet, Carolyn & Dick



Thursday, September 5, 2013

Getting to Know the Lodge and the People



           In some ways, life here seems preposterous; it’s like we are on vacation at some resort. The setting is gorgeous.  We learned yesterday that the land the Hope Lodge sits on was part of the Candler estate and donated to Emory in the late 1990's.   The Candler Mansion sits back in the woods nearby, surrounded by a nature preserve.  We will take a walk later today around the mansion and the lake. The president of Emory University lives in the mansion today.
The Hope Lodge
             We met and spoke with the director of the lodge yesterday, Danny.  He told us his story of how he came to be working here; an interesting God story.  He informed us of some of the benefits of our staying here.  We get to use the fitness center here on the campus for free.  Muggy and I worked out yesterday.  I think I may have overdone it a little bit. 
            We also get a complimentary membership to the YMCA here in Decatur and we will check that out later today.
            Muggy and I grilled chicken ka-bobs on the deck yesterday for lunch and enjoyed a beautiful setting for our lunch.  


            The lodge staff shuttled us to my appointment yesterday.  It’s about a six minute drive through the nature preserve mentioned above.  Then, we caught the Emory shuttle back over here later.
            The staff from a local advertising company, Ogilvie and Murdoch, served us dinner last night.  Wednesday evenings are graduation night for those who have completed their stay here.  It can be a very emotional time.  We had a delicious dinner and lots of good conversation.
            Muggy has found a group who love to play Rummi-Kube at night.  She’s quite an avid player herself and really enjoys the socializing….Muggy?  Socializing?  Hmm, go figure! 

            Everyone’s got a story to tell.  And they are so receptive to sharing.  It’s immensely interesting and educational to listen to the experiences.
            I am in awe of this place and these people; and of the hand of God being on my/our lives to allow us to be experiencing this. My treatments are quite easy thus far.  I understand that by the end of next week, I may be feeling otherwise.
            Hope all’s well with everyone else!  Blessings and thanks for reading!